Queer Waters — We Begin Monday October 5th

For the trans person who is tired of running from themselves

You don’t want more information…

You want a permission slip that helps you HOLD who you already are

You keep oscillating between gender euphoria and gender dysphoria— but it clarifies nothing.

You have SO MUCH energy— BUT IT MOVES NOTHING.

It still feels like your girl parts and boy parts need to be validated by somebody else to feel real.

Gender Euphoria quickly drops into Gender Dysphoria

And you feel a little bit stupid for thinking this could be you…

Doing makeup makes you feel Euphoric… but the end result makes you feel ugly —> Gender Dysphoria

Dressing masculine makes you feel Euphoric… but your chest is poking out —> Gender Dysphoria

Ever notice that the Gender Dysphoria got worse since starting Transition?

It was easier to deal with the Dysphoria when you were still suppressing your girl parts or boy parts.

You didn’t have stakes in the game.

Now?

Now you actually want to try.

You have tried.

But it feels impossible to keep going when nobody sees who you truly are.

You don’t need to transition faster and force the change— it’s happening already.

You don’t need to give up— you know these feelings won’t leave you alone anyway.

What your body craves is:

For you to stop abandoning it when it needs you the most.

What clients say:

“I didn’t think I could get into my body that fast… five minutes in and I’m already in it.

This never happens”

— L

“I’ve noticed, I can actually appreciate my transition, because I know change is coming.

I can see this pain is not forever”

— R, 4 months working together

“I don’t remember the last time I cried like this. I don’t even cry at funerals.

Cause it’s like, men don’t cry”

— H, first 1:1 session

“I can actually feel HER now… it doesn’t feel like I’m pretending anymore”

— H, 3 months working together

Your fluid genderqueerness?

You’ve tried…


Suppressing it.

Limiting it.

Hating it.

Judging it.

Rejecting it.

Being jealous of it in others.

You're left wondering...

“WHEN THE FUCK WILL IT BE MY TURN???”

“I’m done waiting”

Maybe you’ve even tried transitioning before but…


binary was too limiting

Dysphoria was too INCONSISTENT

Family let you down

Trans community kicked you out

And it just feels like You missed your damn chance

You know what it would cost to follow through this time…

And you don’t want to lose it all again

You want to:

Stop listening to other trans people and start hearing your own heart

Stop doubting your dysphoria… and lean into the doubts and inconsistencies

Stop needing everyone to get it… because you get it

Your Questions, Answered